WHY I FAIL AS A BLOGGER? - The Nine by Ivana

WHY I FAIL AS A BLOGGER?

15:15



Every Monday starts the same,  making plans for the upcoming week and trying to forget or make better things we failed in the week before.
I failed a lot in the last week, not only when it comes to my personal life, but also my blog. I promised myself that i will be consistent with my blog, publishing twice a week. I was consistent until some point, but something failed last couple a weeks, and  i feel bad about it.

I love blogging and i can assure you that this is my passion, something that fulfills me, but struggling to do it on the way you want,make good photos and not having enough of support is just affecting me and make me feel sad.
There is a time, when i just decide to delete or not even publish a post because i feel unsure or i am not happy with the result at the end. And i am trying, but i feel that people around just do not understand how i feel about blogging, and do not see how this is important to me.
At the moment i am not in possibility to pay for shootings or any kind of professional help when it comes to improving my blog, so i feel like i am standing at one place and not going forward. I am really trying to improve as much as i can, and i will continue to do it, with or without help people around me, but being misundrestood and not supported is main reason why i do not have self-confidence and feel unhappy. And if you do not feel confident that is transmitted on things you do, and it leads to bad results.

The main reason i published  this with you, is not to make an excuse, just needed to throw it from my chest and feel more free to write and share  with you some things that are part of my life.
Anyway, i am really happy to receive lots of comments and positive thoughts from all of you guys all around the world, who  read my blog, thank you so much!
And i will have on my mind to NEVER, EVER GIVE UP and FOLLOW MY PASSION!




MNE:  Svaki ponedeljak počinje na isti način, pripremama za nastojeću nedelju i sa željom da zaboravimo sve ono loše što nam se desilo ili ono u čemu nijesmo uspjeli. Priznajem da, postoji dosta stvari koje nijesam uspjela proteklih dana, ne samo na privatnom planu, već i što se tiče bloga. Iako sam sebi obećala da ću biti dosledna i objavljivati dva puta sedmično, nešto se jednostavno dešava i čini me da se osjećam loše.

Volim blogovanje i uvjeravam vas da mi je to velika strast, nešto što me ispunjava, ali ne biti u mogućnosti da to radiš kako želiš, ne primati dovoljno podrške od ljudi koji te okružuju, jednostavno utiče na to da se osječam tužno.
Postoje trenuci kada jedostavno obrišem neki post ili ne želim ni da objavim ono što sam napisala, jer nijesam zadovoljna krajnjim rezultatom. Iako pokušavam, jednstavno imam osjećaj da ljudi koji su oko mene, ne shvataju koliko mi je blogovanje zapravo važno i koliko me usrećuje,
Trenutno nijesam u mogućnosti da priuštim sebi profesionalnu pomoć, što se tiče bloga, i imam osjećaj da stojim u mjestu, da ono što radim ne ide uzlaznom putanjom. Trudim se da napredujem koliko mogu, sa ili bez podrške ludi oko mene, ali biti neshvaćen i primati podršku utiče na samopouzdanje i čini te nesrećnim. A ako nijeste pouzdani  i sigurni u ono što radite naravno da nećete uspjeti.

Glavni razlog zašto sam objavila ovakav post, nije da bih tražila neke izgovore, već da nekako maknem teret koji me već duže vremena sputava, i naravno da dijelim sa vama sve ono što je dio mog života.
Želim da se zahvalim svima koji čitaju moj blog i obećavam da NIKADA NEĆU ODUSTATI i DA ĆU PRATITI SVOJU STRAST!




                                                 ABOUT THE LOOK


When it comes to look, I like long jackets and trench coats, they are great for changing weather. This is my kind of uniform lately, jeans and shirt and cover up. I love this new lace-up flats i got from Zaful, i wanted them since last summer, and the wait is over, i finally have them.

My favourite way to wear them are on bare lags, with dress or skirt, but it is also fun to style them with jeans, just tie it up on the leg and it gives really nice detail to the look. Also, this gold heel is nice detail and i also like pointed toe, i became really obsessed with it lately, so having this pair, with all of this nice specifications is great addition to your spring/summer closet.



MNE: Što se tiče ovog look-a, obožavam duže jakne ili trenč kapute za prelazno vrijeme. Ovo je moja uniforma poslednjih dana, farmerke, majca i nešto preko svega toga. Obožavam ove nove baletanke koje su sa sajta Zaful, željela sam ih još od prošlog ljeta, i napokon su moje.

Omiljeni način da ih nosim je na golu nogu, sa haljinama ili suknjama, ali zanimljivo je stilizovati ih i sa farmerkama, samo vezivanje uz nogu daje lijeo detalj cjelokupnom izgledu. Takođe pozlaćena peta i malo šiljatiji vrh su zanimljivi detalji sa kojima se opsjednuta u poslednje vrijem, tako da nećete pogriješiti ako dodate ovaj par vašem ormaru za predstojeću ljetnju sezonu.




I WAS WEARING

LACE-UP FLATS: ZAFUL 

You Might Also Like

32 comments

  1. I totally get what you are feeling. Lately, I am not able to keep up with the one post per week schedule. I guess it is OK to take a break when you are feeling uninspired. I also don't want to post something just for the heck of it. On another note, I really like your look; the cape adds a lovely touch.
    http://thevagabondwayfarer.com/2017/03/24/5-amazing-places-to-see-in-arizona/

    ReplyDelete
  2. Anonymous27/3/17 17:28

    You certainly have a great style!! <3 - Laura Rike // info@envizionadvertising.com // https://laurarike.com/

    ReplyDelete
  3. Jako mi se sviđa ovaj otfit. Traperice pogotovo. Jako su ljepe!

    Prvi puta sam na tvom blogu i jako mi se sviđa, prijavila sam se!

    Posjeti moj blog bilo bi mi zaista drago: http://stroongana.blogspot.hr/

    ReplyDelete
  4. Hey don't be so hard on yourself! I know how it feels. A blog is a lot of work and some days it feels like you're trying to promote it and not even your friends understand the important of a few shares, comments and likes! Until you have a big enough audience to appreciate your work it's hard and at times really frustrating! Best of luck and nice outfit ;-)

    ReplyDelete
  5. Cute shoes!

    I feel the same way, I really started the year with the intention of blogging once per week and well, that has not happened. Just try not to be down on yourself about it and do the best that you can.

    ReplyDelete
  6. Remember that all of us have been a beginner one day. Everyone of us makes mistakes and improves over time. You learn to write by writing and you learn to take photos by taking photos.

    It's not all about money. It's mostly about passion, writing and shooting a lot of photos, reading others blogs and networking with likeminded people. Remember that you're not alone and you improve post by post.

    I was blogging 5 years with my old blog before the one I have now. I learned to be better photographer because I couldn't effort good technology so I had to compensate with learning to get the best out of the devices I had. Once you already do great better equipment can help you but using the less good first is really a good thing for learning.

    Just keep blogging and learning. And keep your head up! :)

    ReplyDelete
  7. love the shoes and shirt! Keep up with the blog if it's your passion :)

    xx
    lau
    www.malibluemymind.com

    ReplyDelete
  8. Thank you for having an honest approach to the world of blogging. You got this, girl! xoxo

    ReplyDelete
  9. I wouldn't beat yourself up on the blogging thing. I've stepped away from my blog (that I've had nearly a decade now) for years at a time. I come back...and start again. And hey...you look fabulous in the process! Thanks for being transparent!

    ReplyDelete
  10. Samo malo da te utješim nisi jedina koja si obećava da će blogovati par dva puta sedmično i ja također brišem neke napisane tekstove,baš sam se pronašla u ovom postu, odlično si napisala
    i još da te pohvalim za kraj, odličan casual outfit :* :))

    http://bodyfashionblender.blogspot.ba/

    ReplyDelete
  11. I totally understand and am with you on this one! But being open and honest is great because it lets us readers feel more connected with you as you are more relatable. you are doing a great job, keep up the good work!

    ReplyDelete
  12. I completely understand and we've all been there. I question myself on a daily basis but if you love blogging, you need to keep doing it. Just keep your head up, girl! You are doing great!

    www.flashesofdelight.com

    ReplyDelete
  13. I understand how you feel! It's not always easy but just keep following your dreams, that's what keeps me going !:D
    xx


    BLES Magazine: the online magazine about Beauty Life Entertainment & Style!


    ReplyDelete
  14. Every blogger is different & achieves success in varying ways. You do you, girl! :]

    // itsCarmen.com

    ReplyDelete
  15. Svima je ponekad potreban odmor od svega, ukljucujuci i od bloga, ali to nije razlog da odustanemo od onoga sto volimo. Zaista imas nasu podrsku, mi necemo prestati da te pratimo! Obozavam tvoj rad i radujem se svakom novom postu ali takođe i razumem tvoju situaciju jer se i meni slicen stvari desavaju u poslednje vreme. Odmori se malo, i ne brini za blog, tvoji pratioci su tu za tebe! Inace izgledas predivno, a kombinacija je savrsena, defintiivno po mom ukusu!

    Gotičarka

    ReplyDelete
  16. You are absolutely right. If this is your passion, don't give up. Even when it's hard sometimes. Even when it feels like work. Sometimes we have to take a little break, but always come right back to it.

    ReplyDelete
  17. I feel you, I've had slumps like this but they usually come before great improvement! I'm sure you'll get all your ideas out and find your way with blogging soon. also love the look, that jacket is a gorgeous colour

    The Quirky Queer

    ReplyDelete
  18. I hope you feel a bit more relieved now that you've shared your struggles. Blogging is difficult and time-consuming, and if we didn't truly love it, we would have given it up already, I'm sure. The fact that you keep at it proves how important it is to you. Just keep posting, don't give up and drive all your resources towards your blog- there is usually a period of stalling before a big leap in quality, but it will happen, and you're already in a good place. I wish you all the luck- and your outfit is baller! :)

    ReplyDelete
  19. I think we all get tired sometimes, and it's ok to let yourself relax. Blogging is something you really really love, so I think it's fine to retreat sometimes, recharge, then come back to it with refreshed creativity. You're definitely not failing!

    ❤ Angel ❤ Next Garden

    ReplyDelete
  20. I think we all get here sometimes. Its ok. Just take a break, unplug and come back again.

    ReplyDelete
  21. I totally feel this way in the Winter time when it's too cold to shoot looks outside and have no motivation what so ever. I think every single blogger goes through this, so you are not alone.

    xx,
    Amanda || www.fortheloveofglitter.com

    ReplyDelete
  22. I understand how you feel about blogging. We all have a time where we may feel like we're slacking a bit, though it's simply real life getting in the way. We are human, not robots! It's okay to take the time for yourself if you need it!

    I love your look here, by the way. The shoes are to die for! Thanks for sharing your feelings with us :)

    ReplyDelete
  23. I understand what you mean. I love writing, but life does get in the way and it's natural to have a few lull periods. But don't give up on your dream. Take it slow and be easy on yourself!

    ReplyDelete
  24. Definitely don't be so hard on yourself! Sometimes we all need a break!

    ReplyDelete
  25. Great post!

    Have a good day!

    https://nairgraphies.com/blog/

    ReplyDelete
  26. I think alot of bloggers can relate to this post! But don't be so hard on yourself. Great photos too btw! x

    ReplyDelete
  27. I can relate to every word of this! I enjoy blogging but I struggle to find enough time to devote to it as I'd like.

    ReplyDelete
  28. YES. you go girl! Sometimes failure gives some amazing perspective. :)

    ReplyDelete
  29. Wonderful and perfect! I follow you blog, please follow me too. http://alamodenatine.blogspot.com

    ReplyDelete
  30. Mnogo mi se sviđa kombinacija! Inače cenim što si sa nama podelila to što ti leži na duši, mnogo cenim otvorene ljude. <3

    http://couturecase.blogspot.com

    ReplyDelete
  31. Thank you for sharing this vulnerable post. I can definitely relate - there are some weeks where I feel so on it with my blog and others where I can barely publish a post. I think it's okay for us to not be perfect and to sometimes just need to respond to what's happening in our lives outside of the blogging world. I do have a hard time not being disappointed in myself, though.

    ReplyDelete
  32. Prosto sam očarana tvojim autfitima. Iz posta u post me oduševljavaš svojim kombinacijama. Sve pohvale i samo naprijed. Moram priznati da obožavam ove duge kapute, ali nikada ih nisam obukla zato što sam niska i onda dobijem osjećaj kao da me nešto poklopi :), ali tebi savršeno pristaje i mnogo mi se dopada kako to izgleda.

    Moj mali kutak

    ReplyDelete

GOOGLE+

Facebook

Popular Posts